Letting go is not losing. It is a silent acknowledgment: It was enough.
Metal - the element of dignity & separation
In traditional Chinese medicine Let go to the Metal element - the element of fall, clarity and the border.
Metal does not stand for coldness - but for distinction, for form, for the silent Recognizing ends.
Its organs are:
- the lungs: it takes in what is good for you - and lets go of what burdens you
- the large intestine: it eliminates what your body no longer needs - physically and emotionally
When letting go is blocked, TCM speaks of stagnation in the metal functional circuit - an energetic holding on.
⚠️ Typical signs of stagnant metal qi:
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Tightness in the chest, shallow breathing, frequent sighing
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the feeling of "not being able to close"
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Emotional rumination, brooding, resentment
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Constipation or the feeling of "not emptying"
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dry skin, irritability, exhaustion for no reason
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Sleep interruption during the lung period (3-5 o'clock)
The body often already knows that something is over - before you admit it yourself.
🌿 TCM–Werkzeuge für das stille Loslassen
1. write what you can't say
The colon excretes what you don't need - words are part of it.
📜 Schreibritual am Abend:
- "What in me is heavy today?"
- "What can go?"
→ Write by hand. Fold the paper. Let it rest - or deliberately give it away (e.g. burn it, tear it up, bury it).
2. Activate the colon 04 point
A powerful point for releasing tension - and mental clinging.
- Between thumb and index finger
- Press gently with your finger or use the AkuPen stimulate
⚠️ Do not use during pregnancy!
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3. Freeing lung qi - through breathing & food
- Gently extended exhalation (e.g. 4 in - 8 out)
- Warm, moist dishes: Pear compote with black sesame seeds, miso soup, boiled rice
- Avoid too much raw food, sugar, hot and dry spices
The lungs love softness. Anything that gently moisturizes and warms them heals them.
4. Touch your body where it holds
- Massage over the breastbone (Shanzhong, Ren May 17)
- Tapping along the arms (lung & large intestine meridian)
- light self-touch: "I recognize that it was enough."
Sometimes the pain only goes away when you stop fighting it.
5. Nature ritual: The leaf moment
Go into the forest. Find a leaf.
Hold it in your hand - as a symbol of what you are still wearing.
When you're ready, drop it.
Not dramatic - just dignified.
Letting go doesn't need a spectacle. Only a genuine yes.
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✨ Conclusion
Letting go is not a loss.
It is a decision.
A silent farewell.
A quiet "thank you" to what was.
A first "welcome" to what may become.
"It was enough."
And that's exactly why:
May it go now.
Letting go is not a loss - it is space that is created.
Author: Unknown
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